| On MyAnimeList I like to collect friends like Pokemon and sometimes wait for them to evolve. If they don't meet my standards I give them the boot. How do you guys manage your friendslist? Do you prefer it large with 100+ people you don't even know the names of (let's face it they're not really your friends), or do you like it small and cozy with a few pals you talk with on the daily? |
Laike said: I kick em if they don't hold a good convo or even talk. But i like to collect rocks, what about you? Geodude is the ultimate pokemon. I like to hit people with rocks. |
BlakexEkalb said: You canβt purge a friends list if you donβt have any to begin with. Is there any particular reason that you don't want any friends? |
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| Omg don't fucking purge... one of those is going to be someone who doesn't know why you did that. No doubt. |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
BlakexEkalb said: Seiya said: Is there any particular reason that you don't want any friends? I consider someone whoβs a friend to be someone special, where I can trust them and they are good people. While most people will call those theyβve talked to for only a couple conversations a friend, Iβd see them as acquaintance. I donβt use the word friend sparingly. As such, nobody on MAL is an actual friend of mine. This also means in real life, I actually only have 1 friend and even then I donβt see us being friends in the future. Oh, I see. Not to be rude, but that does sound a little bit pessimistic. Granted, I only have one real-life friend, and we don't hang around much either, but I actually want more real-life friends now more than ever, but I'm not that social in real life, so I have a hard time meeting people. |
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| I used to purge people if I wouldn't remember who they even were and keep my list under 100. Now I don't give a shit anymore and I just accept everyone. |
removing all of them was a difficult job, since I didn't remember those I knew and those I didn't know. Then, when I was almost done, I remember that I have no friends on MAL, and I left it that way. |
| On MAL, I only add people I know from real life. Which is like no one, lol. I've always kept my friends list on public networks minimal. I'll typically add people in private from MAL to discord or whatnot if they message me, but don't really add them onto my list. I think it's because I mainly use MAL to update my list and reply to forums so there isn't any other interaction I necessarily need here. |
| Unfriending seems like unnecessary work since they don't occupy anything, so I just leave them there. I don't care either way about size. |
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| I purged my friendlist last year I had like 160 friends and only kept close ones. |
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| no i don't give a fuck about it anymore but I've stopped accepting frs from randomers whom I've never interacted with before I don't want to end up as one of those butterflies among their collections |
| I efface those whom I deem unworthy of my friendship. |
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MAYOIII said: no i don't give a fuck about it anymore but I've stopped accepting frs from randomers whom I've never interacted with before I don't want to end up as one of those butterflies among their collections Mayonnaise is bad for your health and isn't vegan. Get out |
| I'm not particularly concerned about whether someone is a 'friend' here or not...I'll talk to them or ignore them regardless. Purge me daddy. |
| The football field isn't the only place where you could use a good line. |
| I eliminate people randomly, it doesn't matter cause let's face it they are just people to kill time with and once that objective is gone poof vanish into thin air. There are over 7 billion people on planet earth one or two people being gone means nothing. |
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| I donΒ΄t like to send random friend requests for no reason,i only send them when i am sure from the profile of that person that we have common interests,or if the person themselves send one to me.I like to have my number of friends at a manageable level.I wonΒ΄t kick someone for no reason. |
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| I limited my personal messages to friends-only on MAL and closed profile comments. So yes you have to send me a request if you need anything lol |
| I don't care. They add me, we never interact. I dunno why it exist. |
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| Don't care. Not like I talk to any of them. I accept everyone that sends me a request and will never remove them. Well unless they start harassing me or smth but other than that. |
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| Only one person I consider as a friend in my list. The rest are an acquaintance I've at least interacted with. I don't accept random friend requests. |
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| I have never had so many friends so that I needed to manage it lol |
| thats funny lol. i actually dont care about my friendlist. I get random requests now and then. i just accept them and forget em. |
| MAL is not like Twitter, it's not like too many friends are going to clutter my feed. I don't give a fuck how many friends I have or not in here. |
| I have never purged anyone in my "Friends" list and don't plan to - not even the ones in my "Top Friends" list who have removed and/or ignored me |
Luchse said: I efface those whom I deem unworthy of my friendship. I imagined your avatar saying that with the gun in his hand andβoh wait where are my pants? OT: I accept everyone, it does me no harm so if they want to increase a meaningless number in their page they can very well do that. (Not talking about those who legitimately add me for friendship) |
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| It takes effort, so I don't. You wanna on the list for whatever reason - fine by me. Of course, there're some friends I am happy to have on the list and occasionally I may kick someone if I feel they don't belong at all of they have offended me. Mostly don't bother tho, yeah. |
| I accept everyone, there is no compelling reason against it for me. |
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